What Is Outer Cape Men’s Circle?
Outer Cape Men's Circle is a space for men to gather, speak openly and honestly, listen deeply and be listened to deeply while curiously exploring all aspects of life.
This is a regular gathering for men on the Outer Cape built on trust and curiosity to build a stronger sense of self and a deeper way of being.
Through simple conversation, reflection, and shared agreements around respect, gratitude, and confidentiality, we create a connection that takes us deeper within ourselves to know ourself on another level which allows us to show up more fully in our lives.
The circle is about sharing, listening and opening to support one another, rather than providing advice or fixing each other. As Ram Dass has said, who we are is not our opinions, but our opinions can be open to discussion. Outer Cape Men’s Circle favors reflective discussion and conversation, rather than debate and confrontation.
What is Needed?
You! No prior experience with men’s work or any particular belief system is needed — only a willingness to show up, be curious, and support others.About Outer Cape Men’s Circle
Outer Cape Men's Circles aim to have 6-8 participants
We look to keep the same participants in each circle for continuity and community building. Of course, switching days/times may have to occur and we will accommodate as openings allow.
Length of circles:
approximately 1.5 hours
Frequency:
Twice per month, roughly every other week
Location:
Orleans, MA - address given upon registration
Remote - coming soon
Schedule:
TBD: Looking at Tuesday, Wednesday, or Thursday evening - around 6p
Price:
We know the importance of consistency and commitment over time so we offer 2 tiers of monthly, 3 month, and 6 month payment options — pay what you can
We want to make this accessible to as many people as possible and for that reason we will not turn anyone away strictly due to financial reasons. Please contact us if any of these options do not work for you.
Monthly - $65 and $85 (2 sessions)
3 Month - $185 and $245 (6 sessions)
6 Month - $355 and $475 (12 sessions)
Join Outer Cape Men’s Circle
Booking is simple.
Please fill out the intake form with your preferences and we will contact you via email to place you in a circle and send a link for payment.
Thank you!
Facilitator and Host of Outer Cape Men’s Circle
Shaun Logan is the facilitator of the Outer Cape Men’s Circle. He is a certified spiritual companion, intrinsic health coach, and doctor of physical therapy with over sixteen years of experience supporting individuals in both physical and spiritual well-being.
Shaun approaches facilitation as a shared experience, seeing himself as an equal participant in the circle while continually working to open his own heart and live with curiosity. Through this work, he has come to deeply value the power of community and the importance of creating intentional space for honest sharing and listening.
He lives in Eastham with his wife, two children, and two dogs, and is an active member of the Outer Cape community. Shaun contributes his time, creativity, and energy through volunteer work, including art, gardening, and supporting local organizations.
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Guidelines for Outer Cape Men’s Circle
SAFE GROUP: We will all do our part to create an environment where everyone can be real, open and honest with their struggles and victories.
CONFIDENTIALITY: What is said in the group stays in the group.
NO FIXING: We are not here to fix each other. Give encouragement! Avoid trying to solve or fix each other.
NO “CROSS TALK”: Be considerate of others as they are sharing. Avoid side conversations.
SILENCE: It is important to allow silence in the group as it provides an opportunity for someone to share and for members in the group to process the topic or question being considered. Most importantly, it creates opportunities to listen to the unknown.
USE “I” STATEMENTS: It’s easy to talk about the issues of others, but for our purposes, we want you to put yourself on the table. Try to use “I” statements rather than “them”, “us”, “we”, etc.
PAUSE: Allow a pause in conversation after someone shares to give the person sharing the chance to finish and the group the opportunity to consider what was just shared before responding.
LISTEN: Let’s value one another during the discussions by really listening to what is being shared. Try to avoid thinking about how you are going to respond or what you are going to say next.
SHARING: Be sensitive about the amount of time you share and how many times you share.
NO RESCUING: When people are sharing something deeply personal, there can be a tendency to try to make them feel better about themselves or the situation by providing immediate condolences. Resist the temptation to rescue people.
BE SELF-AWARE: Be self-aware of how you are personally effecting the environment through your words, actions and non-verbal communication.
Join Outer Cape Men’s Circle
Booking is simple.
Please fill out the intake form with your preferences and we will contact you via email to place you in a circle and send a link for payment.
Thank you!
Get In Touch
If you're interested in joining Outer Cape Men’s Circle and have questions or want to share anything please reach out!